Something more cheerful or a start; Jablog said about writing a book of my family, I somehow don't think that would be welcome. But that admirably titled book 'My family and other animals' by Gerald Durrell twitched my inner giggle because I have been unfairly accused of loving my animals better than my children. As if!
I will speak out for animals of course, and I did have my quota of dogs, cats, rabbits during my lifetime but that was it. Also, I looked after the 'acquired' pets of my son, frogs, which I had to dig worms from the garden for.
Shamefully I was indulged in childhood with a pony and a St. Bernard at one stage but dogs drifted in and out of our household at the time. Rescued probably. Also, Snowy the cat, with one green and one blue eye, who could never make up her mind as to whether she lived with us or next door.
On my shelves are two drafts of manuscripts, one by Con Opper the other by Lotta Opper. One is very bureaucratic, the other a bit too honest on relationships. So neither would find a market and are only of interest to the family. I think like most families we looked for the exotic in our family or at least a brief brush with royalty, either side of the bedsheet!
Being born illegitimate and in my time as a child it was shameful, the word used was bastard. Then spending a good part of my life thinking I was part Jewish, only to find out that my mother came from Staffordshire in the Midlands I realised the fibs one is told as a child are really not good.
My Jewish friend who I went riding with tried to convince me to go out when I was in my twenties to Israel and join a Kibbutz. Thank goodness I did not, what a terrible dilemma I would have faced as I watched the settlers taking the land off the Palestinians. How would I have reacted?
These small changes in our lifestyle can have so many repercussions later in life.
The grandchildren growing up, are though, very similar to our animals in the way they grow up. We laugh delightedly at their antics. Their energy tamed over time into what is expected of them - I would add the word sadly there. For we must always subscribe to the norm of our class, a word I hate for its implications but so necessary when describing one's background. Like the labelling in our blogs we hit a number of defined statistics in life.
The question is do they explain us?
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