Tuesday, July 21, 2026
Wittering
Sunday, July 19, 2026
Family history
The car crash robbed me of a much loved husband, a father for Karen and the youngest son of Con and Lotta Opper. Of course such things happen to many people but it has a profound effect individually.
It is something I never talk about, the grief at the time was unbearable. Nick had called in at Oxford to meet an old friend, David Double and was driving back home, which was Woking in Surrey at that time.
After the car crash. Down to a foolish women pulling out without looking to see if there was any one coming, Nick was taken to a Nottingham hospital. Con and Lotta came over immediately and for a fortnight till his death, he was unconscious, the prognosis was that he would have probably been confined to a wheelchair for the rest of his life. I remember Lotta saying that perhaps his death was the best outcome for him, for me that was impossible, but death settled the matter.
His death hung over the family for years, his three siblings, all older were also traumatised as well. Annabel his sister would have often take on a mothering role and visited him when he was at school or later at Oxford, taking him out for a meal. For, like most families that worked overseas all the children were educated in England at boarding schools.
The Swiss connection for my family has always been strong, each year my daughter, Karen and I would spend a summer month in Switzerland, Con always good with both Karen and Marc, Annabel's boy, would keep us all entertained whilst Lotta would keep the peace with two youngsters rushing around.
Marc had been brought up in Iran on an oil camp in the desert, so he was a bit rough with his younger cousin Karen. With his farming friend they would wander around with a knife and air gun. I cannot but look at a picture of him now, overweight and a successful business behind him and giggle at the transformation.
Marc had an impetuous nature as a boy. Once while sitting at a Swiss restaurant he put his hand on the hot plate in the centre of the table and burnt his hand badly. He would push through crowds without thinking and there would be a lot of crossness at his behaviour and us apologising as we followed him behind.
This is for my grandchildren, especially Lillie, who bought me a book to record my history with the Opper family. Mostly I think photos tell a better story than words.
| At Gruyere, a family annual photo capture. at the same spot See below |
| Canadian side of the family in snowy Switzerland rather than Canada |
Sunday 19th July 2026
It is Sunday. a quiet and peaceful day. I have been round the blogs, seen Going Gently's long photo album of happy people being together in the Rectory Garden. I went out yesterday to the Folklore cafe there was a 'maker's market' though hardly many stalls. But as I opened the cafe door, the sound of children's excited voices hit me. Families were gathered together in little clusters on the sofas playing games, and I realised this was also a happening.
The Folklore Centre has been closed mostly over winter and up to now. One reason is because the pavement has been closed for the Hippodrome works. Also because more money was needed. But it has been slowly opening with different small venues happening. A certain emphasis on feminist speakers, which is not my kind of thing. Just feel we should have moved forward on that issue.
Anyway Holly was there and we chatted and I bought three pieces of fabric from her. It is sad because such a warm and friendly place where people gather is hamstrung by the need for money. The building is I believe owned by a baker from Hebden Bridge, and he is happy to run the cafe and the bakery behind but with a certain emphasis on Vegan fare, which I would think is only enjoyed by vegans. His bread is lovely by the way - real organic.
Holly by the way is the leading force behind the Folklore Centre, with the big library of books upstairs in the cafe she has led the way and worked very hard to keep the Centre going. And, I believe it has taken its toll on her health.
A photo of several stones piled together at Stanton Drew stone circle, which is behind. The circle with two smaller ones inside is I think the third largest stone circle in Britain. The ones piled together by some farmer in the past, were probably a small avenue that led down to the river. The relationship of the church which you can see in the background, is once more the need for the religious faith of the church to dominate the pagan stones.
Saturday, July 18, 2026
Gathering the News
The Binman: Okay, collective failure of British people to take life seriously. We welcome you alien garbage bin from outer space. Government will even make it legal to enter into the hallowed space of Parliament for strangely dressed creatures.
Nigel, poor lamb chop, you shot yourself in the foot this time, let us hope it is the end of your despotic, despairing, disgusting play for power. Being ripped apart by the country is so unfair!! Well the link is playing up so I will just give its link to You tube. link
Thursday, July 16, 2026
16th July 2026
Tuesday, July 14, 2026
14th July 2026
Sunday, July 12, 2026
Sunday nonsense
It is getting cooler, with the window open a refreshing breeze blows through the house. Outside noises also become clearer. This morning the crows and probably a chirring blackbird chasing off a robber magpie from their nests.
I listen to children playing out on the road, 'Elizabeth Bott' (I'll scream and scream again) is alive somewhere out there. Deep Yorkshire voices, tittle-tattling or gossiping if you prefer under my window. Families walk by push chairs in hand and of course the legion of dogs on their way to that green path for the dogs to relieve themselves. Little yappy dogs adding their barks to the air. Yes people are enjoying the warmth of this summer heatwave.
Our kitchen bakes somewhat, the Aga is still on, because it is expensive to turn back on, once turned off, and as we cook on it we just have to put up with the heat. The fridge/freezer is of course playing up and the old one in the basement has given up the ghost but resuscitation is planned for the kitchen fridge/freezer.
I featured a photo of Green Eyes the kitten yesterday. Him feral instincts was to join on as family to my two bantams and he lived in the garden quite happily coming in for food. But when I left Normanby I had to find a home for him He went off quite happily to a smallholding, though it was a devilish job in catching him. Happy ending.
Yesterday the internet disappeared, I turned the router off a few times but nothing happened. When Lillie came back she fixed it with a 'hot spot' on her phone!! I will never get there as a competent computer person, how do you fix hot spots on your phone?? At least this morning I was able to distinguish AI fake photos of people from real people. It was that glint in the AI eyes, just didn't look natural ;)
Photo of the day. This is Whitby when the swing bridge is open to let boat traffic through. It is always crowded with holidaymakers and is the only crossing place between the two sides of Whitby. The next bridge is a good mile further inland. The bridge has been closed this week because of repairs and all those wishing to cross from one side to another have to walk a long way to the other bridge.
Another edit: A good obituary by one of my gurus Professor Tim Wilson who I listen to. Ann Widdicombe
Saturday, July 11, 2026
11th July 2026
The murder of Anne Widdecombe, former Conservative MP is a shock to everyone. You may disagree with many of her views but she did her job thoroughly. I sense that to use the word murder is tentative but given that she was found with serious injuries that must be the conclusion. So I hope she rests in peace after such an unfortunate end.
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Back to Richard Jeffries. 1848 to 1887. I listened to a lecture about him and his background and the lecturer mentioned that Jeffries was seen as a mystic, folding himself into the world around him with a certain ecstatic feeling of being part of the Universe. He had a rather complex upbringing. His mother found it hard to be a mother to him and he lived a lot of the time with an aunt and uncle. His mother had lost a daughter at five years old and could not face looking after another child.
Apparently Edward Thomas wrote his biography and I see that Abebooks has plenty of choice at a reasonable price of this book. You can almost see where Thomas's writing sprang from, especially his 'Lob' poem. This was an England, now lost to time and those terrible two wars, that was graced by a verdant landscape. Full of wild flowers, birds and insects. A world which we have lost. If you have watched the video on 'Pilgrimage' by Story Crow, you will see the landscape that Jeffries grew up in. The chalk downs rolling into the distance. Tiny villages at the foot of the downs. Rich farming land.
More photos found whilst reading about Jeffries. Question can you miss flowers more than people? Pink cupped roses, slightly dishevelled but loving that old church brick wall.
leaves of every shape and size goodness knows what that little yellow flower was.
| Luscious red peonies |
| A beautiful unusual coloured mallow |
| White buddleia with half a dozen butterflies. Buddleia equals butterflies |
| Green Eyes a feral kitten who also loved butterflies! |
Friday, July 10, 2026
"The Sparrow has my voice"
This morning someone had put a poem on F/B addressing the sad death of Anne Widecombe, a political figure who had strong views. The poem is for us and is another rendition of 'My England' as seen through different eyes.
Tuesday, July 7, 2026
Interesting times
I have a large green arrow to use on my computer and it is not easy to use. This because I kept losing my very small white arrow off the sides of this large screen. Theoretically the large arrow works but it is ugly.
This is to record by the way, the second coming of Nigel Farage.(Note, he has come back before though) After his speech this afternoon. As a piece of political news it will be interesting to see where his resignation as an MP and then to stand in a byelection again leads him. IT is his hope that the people of Clacton will re-elect him. Farage gave a speech full of hurt anger and also fury that he has been targeted by the press in a particularly horrible way. Well for someone who has courted publicity and has dominated the news forever that is a little over the top!
Weirdly it was the Sunday Times article that brought Farage down and to the podium, Andrew said it is because Murdoch had pulled the support off of the heavyweights behind Farage........I bet there will be a bit of suing there' As Trump's regime falters in America so Farage's bright star is also falling. Thank the heavens for that.
Below is my list I am keeping for posterity sake this week. Jonathon Freedland, Tom Harris, Simon Tisdall and also Simon Jenkins are the four journalists I turn to every week. I expect they will write articles even more interesting next weekend ;)
Recent Prints - Colin Blanchard
Prints by Colin Blanchard. Why? I have two of his hare prints, could it be I was looking for a poem he had sent with the prints. Paul's son has just produced another fine painting as well.
Saturday, July 4, 2026
4th July 2025
Family matters. They have all gone their separate ways by 8.30 this morning. Andrew to walk 20ish (there and back) miles up to Haworth, Bronte landscape. Lillie to go and count in the walkers in and out on the Boundary Walk. And then my daughter who is rejoicing that there will be no replacement buses into Manchester from Rochdale when she goes to work this morning. The trains are once more working that stretch.
At 7-o-clock Lillie came into my bedroom to show off her new shoes, a belated birthday present from her father. Adidas bought at Liberty's no less, they are pretty with the pattern on the front. She was already dressed for scouts. Yesterday afternoon she had baked cakes and biscuits to be sold for the scouts. She is a teller? recording the walkers going and coming back. Obviously there is going to be a discrepancy in the number as there will be dropouts and people who couldn't make it but I am sure the mountain rescue people will be around to stretcher anyone down.
As an aside, a bit of news yesterday, was the mountain rescue people who had had to bring down a Saint Bernard dog from a walk, who just lay down and refused to walk down with his people.
Boundary walks are an old custom where you walk round the parish of the town. The Todmorden walk, 22 miles, goes round Calderdale Way and the Pennine Way, the walk traces an ancient or earlier boundary. Sometimes you can Beat the Boundary which entails touching along the walk in different places with a branch, or beating them.
I have already told Andrew to take plenty of food and water, and he has also arranged for pizzas tonight, so we shouldn't starve if he doesn't get back. He is very good at getting out of his day to cook but always produces a takeaway ;)
Friday, July 3, 2026
Pilgrimage - June 2024
This is my England. I don't expect you to watch this two and a half hours video, it is recorded on my blog for myself. A delicious reminder of what I have lost by getting old, and no I am not sad for I have so many memories to look back on.
This is the chalk downs of Berkshire and Wiltshire, along which runs The Ridgeway track, a white path because it followed the dry chalk ground. Littered with prehistoric barrows, hillforts and megaliths. I know these people that now lovingly and foolishly go to worship in their own pagan ways the solstices at Avebury, they are my tribe.
I am not a pagan by the way, sensibility makes me scorn religion, but I love the involvement that is given to our far away ancestors. If you were to attend the solstice festival at the stones of Avebury, you would find a fire with light flicking dancers, young and old as well for the stones remember us all.
Along this trackway you will meet old grey men convinced that ley lines run through England like veins, read The Old Straight Track by Alfred Watkins, he started this. Than there is this discipline, the study of the stars, moon and sun, Archeoastronomy the study of ancient sky cultures, Also quite intensively written about, and at the Red Lion* at Avebury, the meeting place of all good megalithic people you will hear discussions about it. It is a difficult subject to grasp;), especially as the Earth seems to have moved a bit and the stars are a bit out of alignment today.
The Ridgeway takes you through beautiful farmed landscapes, little villages all along the way and then you reach Liddington Castle (it is not a castle but an I/A hill fort) and then Swindon town smacks you in the face, reality is crossing motorways.
Romans, Anglo-Saxons, Viking, and Danes have walked along this trackway, their bones part of the soil as they fought their way into this country. It is a place full of myths and barrows that if you enter, you come to a beautiful place and will be able to wine and dance in meadows. BUT when you are released by the fairies you will find everyone you knew has grown old, though you thought you had only spent a day in this fairy land.
Or stop at Wayland Smithy, the most evocative of long barrows surrounded by the trees and capture the magic. And maybe if you are riding a horse, well tie him up there leave a coin and when you come back next morning Wayland the smithy - a Norse smithy god, will have shod him for you and taken the coin in payment.
| Wayland Smithy in Autumn |
This article in the Guardian asks the question 'What does it mean to be English' The short video covers football, I know some will be interested in that.
Wednesday, July 1, 2026
Can the truth told by a cat be true?
Well can things also sometimes get better? The following video of the redemption of a Scottish 'dead' valley would give some encouragement. Quietly taking it in hand a group of volunteers raised £400,000 pounds and bought the land. Firstly they had to evict the sheep and feral goats and a fence was built round the perimeter as a discouragement to deer. Carrifarn Valley had one tree growing, a Rowan tree. It grew because the seed, probably dropped by a bird, had lodged in a big rock.
It is funny how people love trees and will fight for their preservation, I think it is because, firstly they can be beautiful and grand, but that also we feel grief for the way the landscape is torn apart by humans. They are part of our everyday vision, destroying something familiar shocks the soul into action.
What was funny though I took this video off my tablet and right next to it was a video with the picture of Rees-Mogg, saying in his pompous voice, 'Well do you want rainforests or destroyers' I know what most people would have replied to him, we still love the land more than defence, but thinking about that and you see a conundrum, do you need defence to protect the rainforests?
Note the Scottish flag displayed prominently, another small country of what was once called Great Britain is trying to escape Westminster. Funnily enough I don't see the Yorkshire flag in this part of the county, it was far more visible in North Yorkshire. Not that I am a fan of flags having seen the St. George's flag so horribly abused by aggression.
and one more video for those who like the foolishness of life - Larry the cat, and we all know where he lives. It is a good factual account of No.10's door. It is steel for a start and something I didn't notice, but know now, it has no handle and obviously no cat flap for Larry who expects his lackeys to let him in and out.