Well I have been up since 3 am this morning with Lucy, who was walking the floor in her nervy condition. I sometimes think this hysteria business is caused by bad dreams, anyway she is asleep in a chair now at 6 am.
During this period I watched Youtube, a fascinating video/s of mudlarking on the Thames. From 19th century pipes to Tudor bricks, Bellarmine jug tops and rings. From the coloured glass Nicola White from Tideline Art makes pretty glass fish.
It reminded me of long ago when in my 20s I worked at the small business my grandfather had started up in Great Dunmow, Essex. It was called Pickard Marine, and we did not actually make boats but the engines that went inside, and our main contractor and which kept the factory running, was in fact Colchester lathes I think. Anyway the small boats had to be tested. This involved taking one to London and the Thames.
I think it was an aluminum boat, shallow in the water, off we set. Probably one of the most frightening experiences at the time, on this giant river with large boats sweeping past. The problem came when we had to bring it ashore through all that stinky mud. We managed and then someone called over to us from a large barge, beautifully furnished, that they were obviously living on, and offered us a cup of tea and basin to wash our very muddy feet in. Such kindness but they were horrified at us rank amateurs tackling the Thames.
Another incident involved me taking this boat out on the Essex coastline, amongst a great flock of sailing boats, unfortunately, a steering wire came off the handle to steer and I went round and round in circles with all these people yelling at me. I hate boats! Luckily all these experiments proved to be no good and the boat side was forgotten.
But to yesterday and an afternoon of mulled wine and mince pies. Well I sat down by the side of someone who sends me emails from the local G/P coincidentally and we chattered away on the problems of politics in the area. One point I bought up was going out in the evening to meetings and driving which I wasn't keen on and where to park when I got to the pub. We thought daytime meetings at a local cafe might be the answer. I love the phlegmatic way people accept that they are not going to win a seat in the general election, you lose £500 for a start, a sort of entering fee, we are not big shots like the Americans, or indeed the conservative party with large donations from wealthy outsiders.
E discussed a couple of groups she belongs to, one is in Malton, a lunch where you pay £15 (rather expensive!) for the meal, £10 of which goes on the meal the rest to the charity, you have to bring a newspaper headline along rather than talk about family - hmm not sure on restrictions. The other group was also female doing things together theatre, talks, book criticising, etc. Not a great fan of groups and happy with my gardening club but I am thinking of having coffee mornings even if it is just to bring people together.
But to yesterday and an afternoon of mulled wine and mince pies. Well I sat down by the side of someone who sends me emails from the local G/P coincidentally and we chattered away on the problems of politics in the area. One point I bought up was going out in the evening to meetings and driving which I wasn't keen on and where to park when I got to the pub. We thought daytime meetings at a local cafe might be the answer. I love the phlegmatic way people accept that they are not going to win a seat in the general election, you lose £500 for a start, a sort of entering fee, we are not big shots like the Americans, or indeed the conservative party with large donations from wealthy outsiders.
E discussed a couple of groups she belongs to, one is in Malton, a lunch where you pay £15 (rather expensive!) for the meal, £10 of which goes on the meal the rest to the charity, you have to bring a newspaper headline along rather than talk about family - hmm not sure on restrictions. The other group was also female doing things together theatre, talks, book criticising, etc. Not a great fan of groups and happy with my gardening club but I am thinking of having coffee mornings even if it is just to bring people together.
Love your post title!
ReplyDeleteWith those experiences It's not surprising that you don't like boats
(Reminded me I've got a book about Mudlarking on order from the library)
I suspect that titles catch people's eye, mine come sadly with no thought! Always suffered from sea-sickness as well on boats. I shall keep an eye on your library books, much cheaper than buying them, though the Salt Path in our library is well read, I am number 56 for goodness sake, maybe May when I finally get it.
ReplyDeleteI have friends who have moved to places like Skipton and say how much they like being able to walk from their house to the cinema, shops or groups they attend, and I'm beginning to see the advantages. It's a pain to have to drive even just a few miles for an evening out.
ReplyDeleteTrue, we had the added disadvantage as well of the small packhorse bridge being repaired for 6 weeks, which meant taking long detours down narrow country lanes.
DeleteAgree about groups Thelma - I really enjoy my Book Group (only eight members) which is small enough to make it seem just a group of friends chatting (7 women and 1 man if we are all there). I also belong U3A but at present only go to Book Group which is a branch. My hearing loss doesn't help when the group is large.
ReplyDeleteEntering into a new group can be nerve wracking Pat, and I am not very good at small talk, just had a friend come, she wants me and others to handle the Carvery do for the village. Paul always had meetings in the pub next door but that is not really on......
ReplyDeleteWittering is not a term used here in the USA. Will have to look that up.
ReplyDeleteTalking for a long time about nothing important is the English version.
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