My granddaughter takes me in hand on the train journey to Manchester (she loves doing that). As a matter of fact I hate Tod station, this is where I tumbled and fractured my ankle and had to sit on urine smelling steps for a couple of hours waiting for an ambulance. But she does all the necessary flashing of cards at the ticket machines.
Planning... So we wandered around Manchester and its very tallness assaulted my senses. Large buildings everywhere, some grand and Victorian, others modern and of course the biggest shopping mall you can imagine, the Arndale Centre.
I said, could see the disapproval in my daughter's eyes, that there seemed to be a lot of foreigners around. It is like London, different languages everywhere, and young people, dressed up and pretty, the vitality of city life caught in tourists and the young.
Our first port of call was a bra shop, there is another prom dance in the family in July and everything is geared towards that, and of course the exams at the moment. A lengthy period of sitting down in the basement whilst we waited and then off to meet my grandson at the curry restaurant,
The word I would use to describe the restaurant is 'artisan' a £4 plate of three curries (dollops) on rice, it was alright, except one of mine was too strong and brought tears to my eyes. It was fashionable for crowds of young, presumably male students. Anderson eat your heart out, the young cannot manage on 30p meals! We had that delicious Indian Lassi drink of mango and yoghurt. Then rather stuck after we finished our meal, it was decided to hunt out an icecream and tea for me.
We ended up in the food court of the Arndale. I people watch, from the little girl playing in the mechanical children's car to the young man who desultorily wipe the tables, They fall into that empty space of my mind, noting the father of the child is sitting at a table with his computer whilst keeping an eye on his child - is the mother shopping I wonder. Security men stomp round in red shirts, obviously bored out of their minds. Always I am aware of the young, how cities attracts them. A third grandchild is on the phone to his mother, my daughter, he is looking for a flat in London and downloads the viewing of the flats he is looking at - life in the fast lane!
Then there is my eldest grandchild, gentle Tom, sitting there, asking politely what do I do with my day. I laugh inwardly, for I am always busy during the day - busy doing nothing I suppose is the answer but then what are all these people doing around me I wonder?
We wander back through the elegant clothes of the young, for surely only the older shop at M&S. A young shop assistant flits through the rails, it is getting late and she is in charge of all these superfluous clothes.
We make our way to the train station, say goodbye to Tom, and he goes and catches a metro tram, which always seem overcrowded. We speed back through the industrial detritus of outer Manchester, I look back at the tall skyscrapers of flats, looking so out of place in the landscape. The sad thought comes to mind that just like as in Ukraine, these eyesores would be easily bombed and reduced to a wreckage of concrete and steel girders. Back to the relative safety of Tod.
Too Big! Thank goodness for going home
ReplyDeleteA long time since we were last in Manchester, despite K's roots there. I've been through on the train since and it had changed a lot from the city we remembered. I'm with you on the everywhere's so tall (and a bit overwhelming) - London felt like that last time I was there which is probably 20 years ago now. Bet you were glad to be back home.
ReplyDeleteYes quite happy to be back and go to bed, was rather tired Jennie. It is funny those of us born in crowded towns and cities that we never want to go back to our 'roots' I am from the Black country and it was well named!
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DeleteInteresting! I was born in a semi rural area and it has been my lifelong ambition to move further and further into an urban environment.
At a ripe old age I’ve achieved city life!
Luckily there is a place for everyone Anne.
DeleteI've never liked city environments although the ones I've lived nearest to barely qualify as such. Malls--there was a time when a few hours spent at one was a diversion, but again, too much jostle of crowds and a bewilderment of shops and goods on offer. Here we are about as rural as one can be and happy with that. I daresay we are firmly entrenched in our preferences, not a bad thing!
ReplyDeleteI notice how happy you are both with the new property and the making of the garden Sharon.
DeleteA sad thought enters my mind. I have lived out in the sticks for so long now that I can be sure I shall never go back to a town centre like this again. Can't say I am sorry really.
ReplyDeleteYou have almost answered your own sadness Pat. You don't wont to live in an urban environment anyway.
DeleteI could no longer survive in such a bustling environment, except in a wheel chair with a pusher.
ReplyDeleteI fancy an electric wheelchair but not permanently of course. You definitely need someone to push and guide you though. Lifts are needed as well Joanne.
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